I’ve been doing readings for well over 30 years, and one of the questions I get asked most often is how a client can make their ex fall back in love with them. The simple answer is that you can’t. We all have free will, it’s our birthright, and nothing—not even the gods themselves—can make us do something against our will. That doesn’t mean that this potential reconciliation has to remain a wish, though! If you use a love spell that’s guaranteed to work, then if this relationship really is meant to be, you can hasten its manifestation!. Let’s take a closer look at that!
The first thing you have to understand is that everyone is capable of changing their minds—even you! This happens with relationships as well as with every other aspect of your life. When someone makes it clear that they no longer want to be with you, the best thing to do is to gracefully accept it. Yes, you’re going to feel sad and lonely.. You trusted them and gave them your heart, and they shunned you. It hurts!
Now think back to a time when that relationship was just starting. Were you needy? Where you pining for someone, sad, and crying? You bet your life you weren’t! You were excited and vivacious and dynamic! So in order to draw your ex back into your life, you’re going to have to go back to the qualities that attracted them to you in the first place. Manipulative tactics to try to gain their affection isn’t going to work in the long run. Besides, why would you want to be with someone who didn’t want to be with you? That’s just silly.
A love spell that’s guaranteed to work to bring your old love back into your life takes time, and has to be done properly. Do not tell anyone you are doing this. If you speak of it to anyone—anyone at all—you’ll negate all the magic and undo any progress you’ve made towards reaching a reunion. This spell does not bewitch anyone, nor will it enchant anyone into your arms. What this does is make you more attractive to your ex; and that’s how it works.
You’re going to need a photo of your old flame, an apple, some sugar, some cinnamon, a pink or pale green candle, a knife, matches (not a lighter), and water in a small white dish or saucer. Gather your items before the time to do the ritual. Do not do this when the Moon is going from full back to new. You want to grow love, so do this when the Moon is going from new to full. Friday is the best day of the week for this. It’s okay to do it during a Mercury retrograde, but do not do it when Venus is retrograde (fortunately, that doesn’t happen very often). If you can pull all of that together when the waxing Moon is in Taurus or Venus on a Friday, you’ll be absolutely perfect for this!
So, what do you need to do? It’s really quite simple. When you’re ready to do the spell, find a quiet place where you won’t be disturbed. You can put on some romantic music if you like, and if you want to wear something special—or even nothing at all—that’s great! Like anything else, the more you put into this, the more you will get out of it.
Bathe prior to working your magic, and once you’ve done that, if you’re getting dressed, put on all freshly laundered clothing. Don’t have anything to eat between now and when you do the spell, and if you do have something to drink, only water. You need to be clean on the inside and on the outside, fresh and pure, for this to work correctly.
Now, place the candle on the photo of your lost love, and light it (the candle, not the photo). Drop the still burning match into the saucer of water. As you do, say, “The fire in my soul stirs the emotions deep within.”
Pick up the knife, and pass it through the candle flame. As you do, say, “The fire in my soul cuts through all doubt and hesitation.”
Cut the apple into quarters (you can peel it and remove the core if you like). As you do, repeat this, “First one way, and then another, I’m beautiful as any other.”
Now you’re going to eat the apple, piece by piece, adding first sugar and then cinnamon to each section before you do. Sprinkle sugar onto the apple, and say, “My sweetness makes your life complete.” As you add the cinnamon say, “My spice intrigues you and fills your soul with delight.” Eat this section of apple, then repeat for the other three.
When the apple has been eaten, meditate on the candle flame and envision what your life will be like with love in it. When you feel content and at peace in knowing that you’ve done all you can to draw positive attention to yourself, dip your fingers in the water and pinch out the candle. That’s it, you’ve done a love spell that’s guaranteed to work!
Clean up is easy. Place the photo under your pillow, and put the candle away in a safe place where only you will see it but where you’ll see it regularly—an underwear drawer for example. Take the water with the spent match, and the apple peel and core if you have any, and put them outside of your bedroom window. As you do, know that they’re going to attract the right kind of attention from the right kind of people. When you’re glowing from the inside, you glow on the outside, too, and that kind of charisma is addictive. If it’s fated that your ex returns to you, they’ll get the message. If it’s not meant to be, then someone else will soon start to notice you. Either way, you won’t be alone for long!
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