Enhanced Member Question and Answer
From: gaenor2 
Submitted: 2025-09-10 18:56
Question: U said I let him go. that he can pursue his dream and when he comes back, he will be prepared to commit seriously to building a life with me .But now he is saying that he wants me to come and stay with him here in Paarl 3days a week ,every week cause he Loves me but he don’t want a serious relationship anymore and as soon as he leaves U must start dating other people. I know he loves me and there no other women but niw I’m confused cause I don’t know if I must entertain the relationship with him any further if he feels it’s nnot serious …Or must I continue doing everything a couple do in a serious relationship without putting a label on it and wait till he comes back from Jspan
Answer from da Boss:
Hi, gaenor2!
Spirit senses that your man is uncertain and unsure about what he truly wants. Spirit also believes that the two of you will keep in touch even after he arrives in Japan. So, take things day by day and avoid planning too far ahead. He will inform you if he changes his mind about you dating someone else. Additionally, Spirit sees that he feels very comfortable with you and wants you to spend more time with him now. Spirit advises letting him make his own mistakes, as he will learn from them and will love and respect you even more for allowing him to try.
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Gaenor2 says:
Thank u for ur answer..So right now u don’t see us having a committed serous relationship in South Africa.So right now everything feels uncertain between me and him
Boss Biddy says:
YW, Gaenor2. That all depends upon your definition of serious and committed. I got a strong feeling from Spirit that he is more serious and committed to you in his heart than he is ready to verbally admit. He isn’t ready to acknowledge that yet, but Spirit feels his trip to Japan will make everything more clear to him. 👀
gaenor2 says:
I think he lov3s me but not really that much inlove with me anymore but hopefully he will go to Japan and come back and me and him will work on our future
Thanks again
Boss Biddy says:
Falling in love is actually a series of chemical responses happening in our brains that fade over time. The chemistry in his brain may be fading, but his heart feels something for you. Hopefully he will eventually acknowledge that feeling. Good luck.