Enhanced Member Question and Answer
From: sassykat801 
Submitted: 2024-07-12 11:57
Question: Hi there Not sure what my niece’s issue is, but it’s tiring. I was mad one day out of her 30 years, I apologized for my bad attitude, and she has been distant and aloof for months. Kinda since she has a new boyfriend and a therapist. I’ve been there for her since she took her first breath. I was basically her mother figure, protected her, fought for her. Can’t even talk to her. She picked up my nephew for lunch and parked out of sight. Didn’t bother to come in or ask if I wanted to go. It infuriates me. What’s her issue? She’s pretty much dismissed her family.
Answer from da Boss:
Hi, sassykat801!
There are people who lose their temper at the toss of a hat, and people usually get resistant to their outbursts. But the person who is known to be sweet and kind and gentle, when she loses her temper, everybody starts talking. “Did you hear that Sassykat yelled at her niece?” And the gossip flies. It’s not fair. She’s punishing you for a single outburst, but that’s how people react.
Spirit says your niece’s mind it made up, and there’s nothing you can do to change her. Spirit feels that in the big picture, it’s her loss.
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Victoria says:
Hi! Thank you for answering. You explained her brilliantly. It’s a shame because I have her brother I adopted. That’s fine, I’m not a doormat and if that’s what she wants, then so be it. I will carry on. 😘
Boss Biddy says:
YW, Victoria! Glad we could help.
You know what they say, “You can’t pick your family.”