As an astrologer and Tarot card reader, I get asked questions about love–a lot! It seems that this is what everyone wants to know. Does he/she love me, will we get back together, when will I find someone, will I ever marry; read through the answers on the site, and you’ll see that most people want to know about their relationship. Many of my clients are worried that they’re not going to find love, that they will be alone for the rest of their lives–but I rarely see that in my tarot or the astrology charts. It’s possible for nearly anyone to find love right now, but you have to be prepared to do the work if you want to see this become a reality.
Love Yourself
So, what do you have to do? Well, most people are waiting for the perfect partner to swoop them off their feet, but they’re not working on being the perfect partner. It’s going to be hard to find someone to love if you’re not loving yourself. Like energy always attracts like energy.
You also have to motivate yourself. If you fancy losing a bit of weight, trying a new hairstyle, taking an interesting class, or joining a hobbyist group, but you’re not actually doing it, then the chances that you’re going to find love right now will decrease. The more you throw yourself into things you enjoy, and let new people see you enjoying your life, the more that potential lovers are going to want to enjoy your life with you.
Most love spells work on the Law of Attraction, which is common sense, really. If you want to be loved, you have to be the sort of person that someone would want to love, and you have to send out into the universe that you’re worth loving and that you believe you are loved. You also have to open yourself up to the infinite. The person that you think is your perfect partner, may not be, and that might be why it’s not working between the two of you. In fact, if it doesn’t work, then that could be a soul mate, rather than a life mate, because they’re usually not the same person–but that’s a whole different topic. When you let go of your preconceived ideas and you allow the divinity in which you believe to bring the right person into your life, then you can know that you’re living on your highest vibration, and that you will find your true love.
Make It Happen Quickly
Can you draw this closer, make it happen quicker? Absolutely! Try this. You’re going to need the following:
- A small pink candle (a tea light is fine)
- A piece of white paper
- A bottle of spring water
- A heat proof dish (a glass ashtray is fine, or one of the small glass candle plates)
- A gardening trowel
- A lighter (not matches–there’s a reason for this)
- A pink rose or some rose petals–for the second half of the spell
Do this spell when the moon is between the first quarter and full, and when it is in the sign of Taurus or Libra. Do not do this spell when Venus is retrograde! You can find information on the moon signs and Venus’s retrograde motion (when it looks like it’s going backward, which of course, is just an illusion based on the Earth’s orbit) in a farmer’s almanac, a planetary ephemeris, or you can ask an astrologer–and if you get stuck, you can always contact me.
Step One — Correct Frame of Mind
First, settle yourself into the right frame of mind. Do not do this spell when you are feeling lonely or disheartened. You must do this spell when you are feeling charismatic, confident, and attractive. Light the candle with the lighter. Let the wax pool around the wick a bit, and then carefully pick up the candle and let a drop of the wax fall onto the white paper. As you do, say “Love is all around me.”
With the second drop of wax, say, “Love is in front of me.”
With the third drop of wax, say, “I inhale love.”
With the fourth drop of wax, say, “I exhale love.”
With the fifth drop of wax, say, “I walk in love.”
With the sixth drop of wax say, “I live in love.”
With the seventh, and final drop of wax, say, “I am love.”
Step Two – Fold the Paper
Now fold the paper four times. With the first fold say, “Love is mine.”
With the second fold, say, “Love is here.”
With the third fold say, “Love surrounds me.”
With the fourth and final fold, say, “Love is me.”
Place the folded paper under the bottle of water. Pinch out the candle (do not blow it out–there’s a reason for this), and place it in the heatproof dish. Put these items somewhere private, but somewhere that you will see them daily. Every time you see them, tell yourself, “I am love.”
Next First Quarter Moon
At the next first quarter Moon, take the paper, the pink rose, and the bottle of spring water to your private place. Dig a hole in the soil–if you live someplace where this is not possible, you can use a potted plant. You can also use rose petals, if using a fresh pink rose is going to be impractical. Just make sure they’re proper petals, not silk ones. You’re going to plant the piece of paper with the wax on it, and cover it up with soil. Water it with the bottle of water, and then lay the rose or rose on top of the earth. As you leave the rose, say, “I give thee my rose as a symbol of my love.”
Walking in Love
That’s it! Walking in love is the biggest secret in order to find love right now. The more you walk in love, the more you love yourself and accept who you are and what you have to offer to a partner, the faster the true love that you seek is going to find you. Walk-in love, and know that you have called your partner to you. Let there be no doubt, because love, when it is really like your love, is unwavering.
About Sarah Bellum
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