{"id":733,"date":"2022-05-06T17:15:06","date_gmt":"2022-05-06T22:15:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/?p=733"},"modified":"2025-03-28T22:21:19","modified_gmt":"2025-03-29T03:21:19","slug":"spice-up-your-love-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/2022\/05\/06\/spice-up-your-love-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Spice Up Your Love Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When my clients write to me, it seems to be predominantly about love, money, or sex. Very often people want to know how to spice up the affection they receive from their partner, or how to make the object of their affections fall in love with them. While it\u2019s not particularly ethical to try to take away someone\u2019s free will and make them do something, it\u2019s perfectly okay to want an existing relationship to improve, especially when it comes to enhancing the intimacy. <\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/RomanticCoupleBlog-70.jpg\" alt=\"Romantic Couple\" width=\"640\" height=\"336\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1322 img-fluid\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/RomanticCoupleBlog-70.jpg 640w, https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/RomanticCoupleBlog-70-300x158.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Magic for Lovemaking<\/h2>\n<p>One way to start to work on making those improvements is to do a sexual relations spell. This is best done when the Moon is going from new to full, and when it is in the signs of Scorpio or Aries. Do not do this when Mars or Venus are retrograde! If you have any questions about the timing, consult your astrologer, an online ephemeris, or the farmer\u2019s almanac. <\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/MagicIngredients-50.jpg\" alt=\"Magic Ingredients\" width=\"560\" height=\"294\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1324 img-fluid\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/MagicIngredients-50.jpg 560w, https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/MagicIngredients-50-300x158.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>Ingredients<\/h3>\n<p>You\u2019re going to need the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>rose petals\n<ul>\n<li>If you cannot get fresh rose petals, then the dried ones that are available from the craft section of department stores or florists will do. It\u2019s better if they\u2019re the dried version of real rose petals, but the silk imitation ones used at weddings can also be used.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li>a red candle\n<ul>\n<li>Make sure that it is red all the way through, not a white candle that has been dipped red. It does not need to be a large candle. A small tea light will work best.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li>sandalwood incense\n<ul>\n<li>This should be readily available from any metaphysical shop, or online.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li>peppermint oil\n<ul>\n<li>This can be purchased from most pharmacies and apothecaries, or online. Make sure it\u2019s real oil of peppermint, and not the imitation flavoring sometimes used in cooking.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li>a red pen<\/li>\n<li>a piece of paper (white and unlined is best)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>The Process<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Candle-Roses-Pen-70.jpg\" alt=\"Red Candle, Roses, and Pen\" width=\"560\" height=\"294\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1325 img-fluid\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Candle-Roses-Pen-70.jpg 560w, https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/Candle-Roses-Pen-70-300x158.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/p>\n<h4>Step One<\/h4>\n<p>At the appropriate time, write down your partner\u2019s name on the piece of paper with the red pen, and fold it in half. Put a drop of the peppermint oil on your thumb. Touch your thumb to your head, and then to the paper, as if to put your thumbprint on it. Put the candle on a flameproof surface (a tile works, or if you\u2019re outside, on some pebbles), and put the folded piece of paper under it. Place the incense next to the candle, sprinkle the rose petals around them both, so that they are enclosed in a circle. Light the incense first, and then the candle. <\/p>\n<h4>Step Two<\/h4>\n<p>Stare into the candle flame and let it draw your passion and sensuality. Feel your desires for your partner growing. Close your eyes, and envision the two of you amicably making love, strengthening the bond between you. Lose yourself in this emotion, and feel it welling up inside of you and spilling over. Now open your eyes, and using your hand, wave the smoke from the incense around you, and over the candle flame. As you do, continue visualizing the sexual bond between you and your partner growing stronger, more passionate, more committed. When you have blended the energies of the smoke and the fire and you feel your own passion for your partner swelling, repeat the words:<\/p>\n<h5>Incantation<\/h5>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cAphrodite come to me<br \/>\n         My lover and I one may be<br \/>\n         By flame and smoke and by our love<br \/>\n         Bless our sex life from above.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4>Step Three<\/h4>\n<p>Now, pinch out the candle flame (never blow it out with your own breath). Put the folded piece of paper somewhere that is personal and private to you, like your purse or wallet, your underwear drawer, or in your pillow case. That\u2019s it! Trust the process, that your love life is going to get a lot spicier.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/RomanceNight-70.jpg\" alt=\"Romantic Couple in the Evening\" width=\"640\" height=\"336\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1327 img-fluid\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/RomanceNight-70.jpg 640w, https:\/\/psychicbytch.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/RomanceNight-70-300x158.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Conclusion<\/h2>\n<p>Like any spell, doing this is not going to suddenly make things perfect between you and your lover so that you get more intimacy. You\u2019re going to have to put some effort into things! Make sure you wear your partner\u2019s favorite clothing, take time with your appearance, and do things that you know your lover likes, so that you entice them into desiring to be close to you. The spell will enhance your efforts, but you still have to create the ambiance!<\/p>\n<div class=\"topfourty\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<div class=\"topfourty\">\n<hr\/>\n<\/div>\n<h3 class=\"panel-title\">About <a href=\"https:\/\/www.charlierainbow.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sarah Bellum<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>For a personal, empowering, and in-depth reading, please visit my site&#8217;s tarot page at SmartAsstrologer. 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