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From: beth143\nSubmitted: 2022-12-23 05:00<\/p>\n
From: beth143
\nSubmitted: 2022-12-23 05:00<\/p>\n
Question: It’s been a while since I’ve currently been with my new person, he’s been really wonderful. I kinda understood what you had meant a long time ago when you said to be good to myself. I hadn’t given myself that self-love and I hadn’t seen my worth till a while ago when I broke up with my ex.<\/p>\n
My person and I have been together for at least 5 months now, and (yes he’s Muslim). His mother and father know about me. His mother is fond of me, but his dad has his doubts only because I’m not of their culture. I haven’t met him yet, but I want to.<\/p>\n
My mother knows about him as well as my dad. My mum did like him but got scared because she realized I’m “growing up” and doesn’t want to lose her only daughter I guess you could say.<\/p>\n
Long story short, he wants to commit to me, however, wants to when he has a steady job. He’s hoping for around February time or so. (And also plans on travelling for school for 1 term in September is what he’s mentioned). His dad is just conservative, and even though my person wants this, he does respect his dad and his ideas.<\/p>\n
My person plans to get a (priest-like person) involved to convince his dad about making it work between us.<\/p>\n
While I know there might be some compromise, I know my person is feeling really stressed out and I wanted to help take that load off of him.<\/p>\n
Can you see any obstacles that might come up within the few months, that could cause more strain on our connection (such as external factors) that I could essentially prevent or anything that might be of concern that I need to know?<\/p>\n
Answer from da Boss:<\/p>\n
Hi, beth143!<\/p>\n
There’s a saying in Al-Anon, “You didn’t break it, and you can’t fix it.” Trying to fix someone else’s feelings is most definitely codependent behavior. If he’s feeling stressed, say, “I’m sorry you’re feeling stressed. I will say a prayer for you.” And stop there. The only thing you can do to relieve his strain is don’t do anything to cause him stress. The rest is not your problem.<\/p>\n
Spirit can see a pretty young woman in your new person’s environment. And she may try take him away from you. You need to emotionally detach from him, or he may break your heart.<\/p>\n
If you would like me and Spirit to take a deeper look at your new relationship, please consider booking a private, follow-up reading with me.<\/p>\n
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